An Ugly Start

Just had a fight with my younger brother and I dont know for how many times. What just seems to be a heated argument turned to be an ugly brawl. This is not something that everyone in the family expected as a new year is just around the corner and we entering it with an ugly start. Somehow it tooks my parents to intervene to settle the matter. My younger brother has careless attitude on everything he do while me is an ill tempered person that want perfection in every matter. When these two opposing forces collide, not a single good outcome can be expected. These ill feelings towards each other has been there since we where kids. It touched my heart when I saw my mother shed her tears because of us as she the one who bears the burden the most. It touched my heart when I heard my father expressed his regret over the matter. As my parents, it is something that they dont wish to see, to see their sons quarrels and turn our back on each other.

I know that I'm the one who partly to be blamed. Somehow when you are driven with madness, you tend to lose your sense of well being, patience and self respect. Something that i dont want and not trying to be.  Sigh!!!!

Hopefully, as time goes by, things will get much better. I dont want these hatred and ill feelings continue as we grow up.

This house should be a place for happiness and love to flourish. And as long as I live, I will keep it that way and wont let everything to crumble apart

 


   

The King's Speech

I just finished watching movie The King's Speech and I'm truely inspired by it. I give two thumbs for the movie and surely it's worthy to watch. The movie was based on the true story of how the future king of British Empire, King George VI ascended the throne unprepared after the death of his father, George V and scandalous abdication of his brother Edward VIII. George VI who suffered from  debilitating speech impediment all his life, has to steer his nation and empire from collapsing as the World War II is taking place in British soil. Desperate and in pressure, George VI wife, Elizabeth seek the help of an eccentric speech therapist, Lionel Logue to help the despair king. Despite all the difficulties that both the king and Lionel faced, Geoge VI managed to overcome his stammer and became the symbol that unite the nation during wartime.        

The King's Speech won seven British Academy Awards and four Academy Awards. This is a film worth talking about. It truely raised my spirit to overcome difficulties in life.

Enjoy Watching!!!! 

It's Coming to An End

2011 will conclude in a few days more. Has this year been a good year for us? Only yourself can answer the question. It was a toughest year for me and hopefully 2012 will be more kind to me. There were several events that have caught my attention in 2011 and perhaps the public eye and I highlighted several of it:

1. The Arab Spring 

A wave of revolution has struck Middle East starting from Tunisia and spread all over the continent that have brought down dictator leaders such as Zine El Abidine Ben Ali (Tunisia), Hosni Mubarak (Egypt), Muammar Gaddafi (Libya), Ali Abdullah Saleh (Yemen) and the unrest is still ongoing in Syria demanding Bashar Al-Assad to step down.

The Arab Spring

      2.  Tohoku Earthquake and Tsunami

An earthquake with magnitude of 9.0 Richter struck Japan Pacific coast triggering powerful tsunami waves that destroyed much of cities that situated along the affected coastline. The tsunami also caused a number of nuclear accidents at the Fukushima Nuclear Power Plant which listed as the worst nuclear accident since Chernobyl disaster.

Fukushima Power Plant after the earthquake

      3.  Arif Alfian Rosli

Not much to say about this fella. Perhaps the entire population of Malaysia (or perhaps the world) know the stories circulated about him. The picture below should give an overview about him.

The Malay dilemma?

and many other things that happened through entire 2011...


And what will be the prediction for 2012?...not much since the Mayan people already predicted that the end of the world will happens that year...so just get rid of your new year visions, missions, hopes cause the doomsday is coming...BEWARE!!!

Ok, maybe Armageddon is a bit of an exaggeration

 

May You be Happy Forever

It's good to see you happy with the one you love. At least you are doing good out there. I know it was quite problematic between me and you. There's a huge gap, a gap that impossible to be closed back. Anyway, it's already over between us. You have your own life and I have mine. There were things to be regretted and  there were lessons learned
 
It will be your 20th birthday around this month. So the least thing I can do is to wish you happy birthday and may you live happily ever after

And for me, the journey is still far ahead. It might be a lonely journey but that will transform me into much stronger and better person to face incoming days and challenges.

God Bless Us All

Unfaithful Malaysians

I came across an article in The Star (5th December) entitled "Malaysians Third Most Unfaithful in The World" in terms of love relationship. It's kinda shocking to read how ugly our society is. A survey conducted by Durex found that :

1. 33% of Malaysian men admitted that they were unfaithful to their spouses
2. 39% of malysian women confessed to hving betrayed their partner
3. Malaysian men have an average of three sex partners in their life

What make the matter worst is that the Malays make up 50.4% of Malaysian population. So we can make an assumption of who contributes to this problem the most. Enough said, I heard these kinds of stories for million times already. I saw it myself, I experienced it myself. The storyline is always the same. Men cheating women and vice versa, your boyfriend/girlfriend plays kayu tiga, empat, lima...(I dont know, count it yoursefl), scandals, teman tapi mesra etc..   

Well, living in today's modern era, benevolence attitudes are no longer being endorsed. Honesty and loyalty which are considered sacred in relationship, are just meaningless words in today's interpretation. We are now living in moral depleted society. Our political leaders only think on facing the next general election,clinging to power and survivability of their tribes. They don't even bother of the real problems that plaguing our society especially Malay youngsters. Yesterday's Metro, I read about a Malay college girl being nabbed half naked with her Nigerian boyfriend (Nigerian????). Today's Metro was about 15 (15????) years old Malay teenage girl killed her newly born illegitimate baby. Her boyfriend cabut lari already. This are just few problems that came into limelight. I bet people out there heard more horrible stories than I do.

Premarital sex, skandals, kayu tiga or perhaps kayu 10, curang are now considered common to the Malays. Modern Malays tend to put religion aside and seks bebas, nombor ekor, bohsia, rokok and cikaro at first. I'm dare to say this because these are what happening around me. These are what i endure everyday. This is what the atmosphere that I living today.   

To those who have boyfriend(s)/girlfriend(s) or already married, try to ask this simple question to your partner

"Are you faithful to me?"

but before that, ask yourself first "whether you are faithful enough?"

Unfaithful love?

 p/s: I'm new in blogging, my article might not sounds interesting enough. But still I'm learning